Marriage DISC Poll #01—Top 10 Things You Want your Spouse to Do

MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP POLL

Greetings!

PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE YOU TAKE THE POLL! (Especially you outgoing types…)

Thanks for taking a moment to complete this. This Poll is anonymous. You can be totally candid—we don’t know who you are. I will post the answers on this page at the bottom after 10 days, starting September 23, and update it weekly.

Here is the thought behind the question—I want to build a list of the TOP 10 things ONE type of personality wants from another type of personality in marriage—especially in that opposites attract. I want to build a list of the main issues D’s have with S’s, I’s have with C’s, C’s have with D’s, S’s have with I’s and so on—whatever combination YOU and your spouse are. If there is similarity it will help build a helpful list of things to help me/us deal with these issues when we train (and in selling correctly). PLEASE be brutally honest—if it’s all about sex (or lack thereof), make that your number one issue, but only if it is! If it’s all about them not bullying you, make it #1. If it’s about taking more time with you, being more serious, being kinder, better with money, etc. Answer from your gut! You don’t have to come up with 10, but the more you can think of the better. Please do it in priority order, meaning #1 is the most important and #10 is least important on the list (not that #10 isn’t important). And I am serious about having your spouse do this too…

Here is the question I would like an answer to—

“What are the top 10 things you wish your spouse would do/say/be to make YOUR life better/more enjoyable?”

Naturally, if you can get your spouse to take this poll also, it would be very helpful. As an example, a high I/D with a high C/S spouse, the ‘I’ list might be—

  1. Very your expressions to reveal what’s going on inside. I can’t tell if your happy, sad, mad, frustrated, etc.
  2. Pursue me physically more.
  3. Stop working so much.
  4. Plan more play/fun time on Saturday.
  5. Stop being so critical and judgemental!
  6. Act more warmly toward me.
  7. Stop asking me so many questions! Tell me what you want!

The C’s list might be—

  1. Take more responsibility in chores around the house.
  2. Close the garage door when you’re through.
  3. Put your things away when you are done using them.
  4. Be responsible with the finances.
  5. When we have sex, be more interested in me than in the sex.
  6. Do what you say when you say you will do it.
  7. Be more careful with the truth.
  8. Take off your shoes in the house.
  9. Don’t be funny when I am trying to be serious.
  10. Don’t drive so aggressively.
  11. Stop wearing worn-out clothes.
  12. Can I list another 25 things?

Get the idea?

Here we go! (Click Submit at the bottom when you are done)

MARRIAGE DISC RELATIONSHIP POLL #01

“What are the top 10 things you wish your spouse would do/say/be to make YOUR life better/more enjoyable?”

Marriage Poll 01

Your Personality...

Your Primary DISC Trait (if known—if not known, choose "DK" below) *
Are you more Outgoing or more Reserved? You can only choose one answer. Even if they are REALLY close, choose the one that describes you most. *
Are you more Task oriented or more People oriented? You can only choose one answer. Even if they are REALLY close, choose the one that describes you most. *

Spouse's Personality

Your Spouse's Primary DISC Trait (if known—if not known, choose "DK" below) *
Is your spouse more Outgoing or more Reserved? You can only choose one answer. Even if they are REALLY close, choose the one that describes your spouse most. *
Is your spouse more Task oriented or more People oriented? You can only choose one answer. Even if they are REALLY close, choose the one that describes your spouse most. *

Survey Answers (Due here after September 23, 2o19)

 

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